sometimes as we visit this wonderful summer place, we are in the house, talking logistics and our “to do” list and what needs to be done. and here, before us is this magnificent lake. my husband reminds me, we need to get away from the list of “doing” and step down this familiar path, letting our toes sink into the soft sand, letting our woes drop away, letting ourselves come back to the way we are supposed to feel, the way that is. sinking our toes into this soft sand, this is where my heart opens, my breathing slows down, my thoughts of the “to do” list drift away, even if it’s just for a short while…